Facts about Loving and Hurting

First of all...HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to the person reading my blog.

What you will read here are important facts in order to know whether you are being loved or not at all. I can say some of them are based from personal experiences. You better check if the ones I will write here are Yes or No in your present lovelife.

He loves you if...
1. he gives you courtesy(in short...hindi ka niya pinag-aalala. It does not mean lahat na lang itetext niya o itatawag syo..at least yung mga bagay na importanteng malaman mo para at peace ka)
2. he does not count the number of days or hours or minutes that he devotes with you(kase nga mahal ka niya...mararamdaman mo na kung pwede lang na makasama ka niya lagi...gagawin niya. hindi yung bibigyan ka niya ng schedule)
3. he is very much present during important occasions(ateh..andun siya hanggang matapos ang occasion..hindi yung nagmamadali umalis pag Christmas o New Year..o nawawala pag Valentine's day...hahaha mag-isip ka pag ganon..may pupuntahan pa yung iba)
4. he allows you to see his cellphone(ateh...pag dikit sa katawan niya ang cellphone niya at medyo patagu-tago pag may nagtetext hehehe think again. sure na may gf pa siya other than you o may kabolahan siyang iba)
5. he speaks about himself and you in some futuristic scenarios (watch out ka ateh. pag wala ka naririnig sa kanya na something like..one of these days...magkasama kayo sa future life nyo o di kaya may plano siya para sa inyo 5,10 or 20 years from now...heheheh again ..pag wala..alam mo na yun. di ka gaano mahalaga sa kanya)
6. he exerts efforts to be with you and know you more and make the relationship strong(pag wala man lang kayong oras talaga bilang lovers na kayo lang..walang pag-uusap ng malalim paminsan minsan..well alam mo na yon...mababaw lang ang pagtingin niya sa yo)
7.he wants your presence in his house or relative's house during occasions(hindi ka man lang ba isinasama sa kanila ateh? if tat is the case...syempre hindi ikaw ang legal na gf niyan...you have to wonder na)

Naka-relate ka ba dear reader? What do you think? Are all manifestations of being loved present in your relationship? If yes...good for you. If you are experiencing the examples I have said after each sign, you have to think and ask yourself if the relationship is still worth keeping. If you are a logical person, talk is okay, if it does not work..time to say goodbye must be next. But if you are the martyr and romantic type...maybe you will wait until he change his ways and be forever loving you. No one can tell. Goodluck.:)